Why College “Fit” Matters More Than Rankings—And How Distance from Home Plays a Role
Why College “Fit” Matters More Than Rankings—And How Distance from Home Plays a Role
One thing we see time and time again is this: every college-bound student is unique. Each brings different strengths, needs, personalities, and goals to the table. A school that is an incredible match for one student could be a poor fit for another—even when GPA, test scores, and extracurriculars look nearly identical on paper.
Because of this, choosing a college should be about far more than prestige or this year’s rankings in a national magazine. Instead, families are best served by focusing on how well a school truly fits the individual student. That means looking beyond surface-level statistics and considering the environment, academic offerings, support systems, and overall experience a school provides.
Of course, every student should aim high and apply to strong institutions that can support their future goals. But “best” is not defined by rankings alone—many of which are based on metrics that have little to do with the day-to-day student experience or educational quality. One of the things we pride ourselves on is helping families see past the headlines to identify colleges and programs that genuinely align with each student we are privileged to work with.
One often overlooked—but critically important—factor in this process is distance from home. Geography can influence not only the total cost of attendance, but also how smoothly a student adjusts during that pivotal first year of college.
This month, we’re taking a closer look at how distance from home—both near and far—can affect college costs and the freshman-year transition. There are no one-size-fits-all answers here, but we hope these considerations provide helpful insight as families weigh their options.
Consideration #1: Travel Expenses
The cost of simply getting to and from campus can add up quickly, depending on where a student chooses to attend college. For example, a student from the Pacific Northwest attending school in Florida will likely face significant airfare costs—often assuming just one round trip per semester, with no additional visits home. While that may be manageable for some families, unexpected trips due to emergencies or homesickness can quickly strain a budget.
That said, schools closer to home can come with their own hidden travel costs. A college just “a couple hours away” may encourage frequent weekend trips home—or visits to friends—which can quietly add up through gas, tolls, or bus fares. When a campus is nearby, setting clear expectations and boundaries around travel is important.
Another expense families don’t always factor in early is travel related to study abroad or partner programs, whether international or domestic. These opportunities can be incredibly valuable, but airfare and related costs can be substantial if they aren’t planned for in advance. Students interested in these programs should think ahead so travel expenses can be incorporated into the overall financial plan.
With thoughtful planning—and a little financial flexibility—travel costs don’t have to be overwhelming. But based on our experience, they are absolutely something families should anticipate rather than overlook.
Consideration #2: Living Expenses
Living farther from home can increase a student’s overall cost of living, even when room and board are fixed. While many colleges require freshmen to live on campus, additional day-to-day expenses can creep in quickly without a clear budget and the discipline to stick to it.
Students who are far from home often socialize around meals, which is perfectly normal—but eating out frequently can put a serious dent in a semester budget. Those small expenses can add up faster than most families expect.
Students who live at home while attending a nearby college may save on housing and food costs, though the savings can vary. While living at home isn’t always the “traditional” college experience students imagine, it is almost always less expensive than living on or near campus—even just a few towns away.
Location also matters when it comes to cost of living. A university in a major city like New York will typically come with much higher everyday expenses than a school in a rural or suburban setting, even if tuition is similar. This doesn’t make an urban school a poor choice—but it does mean those costs should be considered early in the planning process to allow for smart financial decisions.
Consideration #3: Homesickness
It’s difficult to predict how a student will handle being away from home until they experience it firsthand. Some students are eager to venture far from home, while others prefer to stay closer—and sometimes the students most excited to leave are the ones most surprised by homesickness.
Living at home during college largely eliminates homesickness, but even students attending school nearby may miss family, friends, or familiar routines. Being close enough for a quick weekend visit can make a big difference when those feelings arise.
At the same time, today’s students have access to communication tools that make staying connected easier than ever. Video calls, texting, and social media can help bridge the distance—even for students studying across the country or abroad.
The key is open communication and realistic expectations. When families talk honestly about how homesickness might be handled, it’s usually manageable without long-term effects on a student’s success—or the family budget.
Consideration #4: College Environment
Perhaps most important of all is whether a college truly fits a student’s personality, interests, and goals. No matter how highly ranked a school may be, it cannot provide the best possible education if the environment doesn’t align with the student.
Large universities in major cities can offer incredible opportunities—but they aren’t ideal for everyone. Some students thrive in smaller, close-knit, or more rural campus settings. The same is true academically: a well-known university may offer an average program in a particular major, while a smaller institution may be highly respected within that specific field.
Campus culture, academic focus, class size, location, and even climate can all influence a student’s happiness and success. These factors deserve thoughtful discussion, and we encourage both parents and students to explore them together as part of the decision-making process.
We’re always happy to help families talk through these preferences and priorities so students can choose a college where they can truly thrive.
Until next month,













